Peyton has one year left of school, and it’s moving at lightning speed! Tomorrow we’ll order her cap and gown and before long, we’ll be addressing graduation announcements to let everyone know she’s finally finished with high school. The thought of her going to college (whether she still lives with us or not) or even just moving out on her own has me scared to death!
For 17 years, I’ve taken care of her. I’ve been responsible for making sure she has food, clothing, an education, kisses to bed, hugs to leave for school, and bandaids for the boo-boos. I’ve been there to talk about boys, or cry about boys, or eat gallons of ice cream over boys. I’ve been in charge of taking her to church, leading her growth in Christ, and nurturing a Godly household. And before I know it, my job will be over in that way, and she’ll be taking care of herself.
I worry. What parent (or grandparent, aunt, uncle, or family friend) doesn’t? We watch our children grow and make mistakes, most often the same mistakes we made as a kid. And then we worry about how they will handle it when we’re not around to hold their hand and guide them to a smart decision.
During this time, I find strength in this verse.
“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You.” –Isaiah 26:3
I don’t have to worry. When I keep my mind focused on the love of the Father, He gives me the peace I need. It’s a peace that allows me to remember that He will watch over Peyton as she finishes high school, as she makes decisions about college, and decides when it’s time to move out.
Peyton may make decisions that I won’t like. She may choose a path that I won’t agree with. But I can take comfort in God’s perfect plan for her life. I need only to trust in Him.
How about you, friends? Do any of you worry about your children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, neighbors!? Come to the porch and share! We’d love to pray over your children.