I FaceTime my mom, on average, six days a week. That’s right. It’s a lot. But after living in the same town as my mom for 38 of my 40 years of life, it’s a necessity. And while a normal phone call works just fine (and I do actually just call on occasion), I love to see her face and show her my antics haven’t changed in the 2 years I’ve been in California.
Enter tonight’s convo. Not unlike any other. I literally discuss a lot of nothing with my mom. I ramble usually for the better part of an hour about the most random things. Tonight, I talked to her about my bible study research as well as the lunch I tried today from a local restaurant I’d found. I talked to her about Rite Aid and how there isn’t one in Cheyenne (like she didn’t know that), and I told her about the Kokie eyeliner I’d found.
On the subject of eyeliner, we began talking about the two colors I’d picked up, Chocolate and Bronzed, and the color difference between the two. So, I put a couple of swatches on my hand for her to see. As the conversation wound down, and I told her I needed to get off the phone, I decided at the last minute I’d give her a better look at what the colors looked like by actually applying them to my lower lid line. Which then led to this…
I can’t help it. I seize opportunities. And when “Instagram Brow” popped into my head, my eyeliner pencil became my paintbrush. This is typically the kind of conversations that we have. And then I usually add one or both of my daughters to the mix to sufficiently embarrass them yet still remind them how much fun I can be!
What does this have to do with Jesus, you ask? Everything! Not everything has to be so serious! It was a moment of JOY! It was a conversation of happiness and silliness, and the bible clearly tells us that joy is good and pleasing to Him.
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones.” Proverbs 17:22, and Ecclesiastes 3:1/4, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.”
When we have Jesus in our lives, we have joy filling our lives as well. It doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It doesn’t mean we don’t have bad days. It does, however, mean that we can find the joy in the seemingly silly or mundane. We can laugh out ourselves and make other people laugh. We can create moments with others that become fond memories in later years. A piece of our testimony for our Father is the joy that radiates from within us because of His grace and mercy in our lives!
Find the joy in your conversations. Fill those conversations with laughter. You won’t be disappointed! How about you? Do you have a moment you can recall that brought joy to an everyday conversation? Share with us in the comments below!